MASTURBATION:
It is a practice of procuring sexual pleasure yourself.
Let's
examine some common myths about masturbation affecting our views.
MYTHS ABOUT
MASTURBATION:
* It is a
childhood form of sexuality that should be abandoned at maturity.
* It is a
poor substitute for what "really matters", ie intercourse.
* It is a
compulsion. Once you start can not be stopped.
* The
desire to masturbate when one disappears evenly.
* It is
harmful physical / emotional / mental.
* Orgasms
that one experiences when masturbating are lower than seeking sex.
*
Masturbation is a private, for solitude, for not sharing.
* Sex is
something to give to others, so, masturbation is selfish and self-indulgent.
* Only
people masturbate lonely, isolated or inadequate.
* The men
masturbate, but women do not feel like it, or do not.
* When you
get used to providing masturbation orgasms, then you can not reach completion
in relation to the other.
After
examining some of the myths that characterize masturbation, let us examine some
positive aspects of sexual activity very misunderstood and discredited.
POSITIVE
ASPECTS OF MASTURBATION:
It is an
act of rediscovery, the little pleasure get active in self-exploration and
contact, only later feel guilt or inhibitions about it.
We can
learn about their own eroticism: what we like and what we need as individuals,
we are unique and can be experts in regard to ourselves.
We learn to
value our genitals and enjoy our own arousal or orgasm.
It is good
for you. Masturbation sex keeps your system running smoothly. Women are allowed
to keep the vagina lubricated and maintain a healthy vaginal. Some orgasm helps
relieve menstrual tension and pelvic congestion. For men, masturbation keeps
working the reflexes of erection and ejaculation.
It is a
valuable means to be sexually independent, and an excellent preparation for
future sex. If both members of the couple take individual responsibility in
meeting their own needs and occasionally enjoy sex masturbation as an option,
both have a wider sexual repertoire and relieve the other of the burden of
having to be always in the same level of desire or to satisfy their sexual
needs. If you know what you can teach your partner, which avoids many riddles,
frustration and discomfort.
For women
who have not experienced orgasm, masturbation can ensure the intensity of
sexual stimulation free from the pressure of having to "act" with a
partner, which maintains the need to reach orgasm. Some may find it difficult
to reach this level if you harbor negative feelings about autoeroticism, but
well worth spending some time and energy to this discovery of the self.
Masturbation
is a self-abandonment to pleasure, is to love, be complacent, loose physically,
mentally and emotionally. It helps relax and relieve sexual tensions,
physiological and psychological.
It's legal,
non-fattening, is safe and can always be resorted to.
We do not
know when we can be alone. If we can enjoy one's sexuality and achieve some
degree of independence and sexual confidence will be better positioned to make
a conscious choice on our next sexual relationship, rather than rushing to
establish a couple of desperation or unsatisfactory sexual frustration.
The degree
of physical pleasure derived from masturbation, from arousal to orgasm, it can
be as intense as that experienced in other sexual activities, and more.
